An Excellent Choice Of Words
My current situation if I may. I have been giving thought to this particular topic as of late, thus this posting. Perhaps your familiar with certain speaking styles. Styles which may seem rather peculiar to certain individuals, but are borderline humorous to others. Such a style have I with a certain friend, I'll call "The Third", who I met while attending my post secondary institution of learning. I'm going to go out on a limb and say every conversation I've had with the man over the past, oh, I don't know, 7 years, has been had utilizing this particular vernacular. I'm not about to state such a form of dialog for an extended duration of time as this is, shall we say, normal, however, I'd say there is most likely an 85% chance that you engage in various styles of communication depending on who that individual is. Now I'm no betting man, but I like those odds.
A moment should be taken to reflect on a quality individual, one that you maintain a certain speaking style with. Perhaps it involves heavily laden inside jokes or perhaps you always cover a specific topic, in any event, that particular style comes to define that relationship in some way does it not?
I will be the first to admit that deep conversation is borderline challenging at best and that referring to an item as a "vehicle entrance prevention mechanism" rather than as a car door lock can slow the pace of said conversation. Still, I believe that when one holds particular linguistic patterns with another certain bonds form, odd bonds, but bonds none the less.
Now, this is where you come in. Perhaps you could share your current situation with other individuals you maintain quality communications of this sort with.